Hello, everyone. I hope everyone is doing well. I hope they're healthy. And I hope you're happy.
I thought about this one last night. And I think it's an important podcast to put out there.

I want to first say there's going to be a lot of expletives in here because I get pretty riled up when I talk about this.

So pardon the expletives, and if you don't want to hear the expletives, and you probably shouldn't listen to the rest of this video.

I eat podcast this is going to be called relationships versus control chips and what they are, how they inevitably start.

And let's preface this about I understand to some point, being a male myself. I understand how women want someone to take care of them. I understand how that's in their, their nature, that's what they are. Doesn't make them bad. Okay. There's nothing like that. But they need that in their nature. And I understand how men need to be the ones that take care of others. That's in our nature. It's born and bred into us. We can't get rid of it.

It's been there for eons it will remain there, probably for quite some more time to come.

But inevitably what happens is two people to good hearted people, with all good intentions in mind, get together and form a relationship a man and a woman. I don't want that. Don't get me kicked out here. What the fuck other people say about two women two men bullshit. I don't fucking deal with that. Now I'm getting into that. I don't deal with it. It's not a relationship or relationship is a frickin man and a frickin woman. Period.

But they get into relationship with all good intentions in mind.

In what in almost always I would say 90% of the fucking time.

What happens is a woman becomes too comfortable in a relationship, as she says giving away her identity. I don't want to say her control. But to some extent, yes, it is control because both people should have equal control in their relationship. It should be 5050 but ends up not fucking being that way. A woman almost always gives up her control. And the man almost fucking always takes it.

And then every relationship that started out so nice, becomes a control ship. When the man says Well, I'm doing we're doing this, we're gonna do that. And the woman doesn't argue about it. Because she just wants to be taken care of.

She just follows along.

Yes, I hate to use the term but I will like a fucking puppy. Okay, you said he's standing up for herself and saying the nail because she doesn't want to cause troubles. She doesn't want to cause breakups. She doesn't want to cause arguments, and I totally understand that.

But that relationship that started off being a mutual relationship, beginning stairs, turns out to be a control ship.

Where the man just takes in the women gives and it's just it's just like an open fucking door. Okay, once a woman has opened that door, no normal man. And believe me, I've been there too. The normal man just takes because you're being given and then I see couples I watch them all the time. And I observe them I'm very observant.

I watch the control mechanism. You know what we're gonna do this tonight right into this and when I say I'm gonna get up and go we're gonna get up and go and blah blah blah into I mean just fucking problems and like a goddamn puppy dog.

At that point, you said of a 5050 relationship is became 9010 or 95. Five, okay. And a woman just doesn't want to stir up troubles and I understand that. That's not who she is. That's not what's in her being. It's not what she's made of. She doesn't want to cause trouble. She doesn't want to make troubles in a relationship. She doesn't want to do that because that's not who she is. And I totally understand that. But as long as your relationship is 9010 It's never going to progress. Any better. The scales are always going to tip in the favor of the one having the control.

And it never gets any better. You become a lap dog.

Or maybe it's the other way around. Maybe the woman is the one that 90% Man has a 10 it doesn't happen, although not very often. Most of the time I see it the other way. Around. But yes, it can go both ways.

Where one has the control, and the other doesn't what has relinquished him, just to keep the waters smooth.

And to see it all the fucking time amongst all kinds of people you go to a restaurant or a bar, you who makes the decision. We're gonna get up and leave or we're gonna eat this and we're gonna get up and leave.

I see it all the fucking time. woman doesn't want that. But she doesn't put her two cents in.

She allows to be controlled.

And that's not a good relationship.

It's not a relationship is supposed to be a 5050 break period. And it's supposed to remain that way. Unfortunately, the way society is and all the other exterior factors are affecting people on a daily basis, hell, on a fucking minutely basis, you become they get pushed into a control ship.

And that is not so who's ever on the 10% side of this scale? Be it male or female. You need to regain your sovereignty. You got to make this thing 5050 If it has any chance in hell of working or you want to live a life of being unhappy.

Sure many do that. They just say you can't do any better. So we're just gonna take it for what it is and you're unhappy the rest of your life. No one deserves that. neither male nor female.

So sit there look at your relationship isn't a relationship or is it control ship?

Figure it out. If it's a control ship, someone needs to get hold of the reins. Someone gets needs to get this figured out and get this resolved. So because more amicable think about it, people. You see it. I see it. We've all seen it.

God bless y'all. Good day.